Articles on the Laws of Family Purity

Arranged by the simanim of Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh De'ah. Each article gives you the practical halachah first, then the sources it rests on.

Siman 183 — Foundations of Niddah

Siman 183 — Foundations of Niddah

Introduction to the Laws of Niddah — Siman 183 and Chumra d'Rabbi Zeira

Why does every woman today count seven clean days, even for light bleeding? The Torah sources for niddah and zavah, the chumra of Rabbi Zeira, and why it cannot be set aside.

Siman 183 — Foundations of Niddah

Hargashah — When Does a Woman Become a Niddah? The Three Contemporary Approaches

A woman becomes a niddah through uterine bleeding accompanied by hargashah. The three sensations the poskim describe, the three contemporary approaches, and when a bedikah is required.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

When Does a Woman Become a Niddah? Stains and Their Criteria

Beyond bleeding with a hargashah, the Sages ruled that a stain can also render a woman a niddah. The five conditions a stain must meet, and why asking beats being stringent on your own.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

The Size of a Stain — What Is a "Gris" and How Do You Measure It?

Only a stain larger than a gris renders a woman temei'ah. What a gris actually is, the source in the Gemara, the ruling of the Shulchan Aruch, and how to measure one with a coin.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

Stains on a Colored Surface — Why Don't They Render a Woman Temei'ah?

Rashi's explanation of why a stain on colored fabric cannot render a woman temei'ah, why colored underwear is recommended, the off-white question, and striped fabric.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

Stains — Location on the Body and on Clothing

Could uterine blood plausibly have reached this spot? The places where a stain renders a woman temei'ah, the sources in Masechet Niddah, and the ruling of the Shulchan Aruch.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

The Color of a Stain — Which Colors Render a Woman Temei'ah?

The five problematic shades of the Mishnah, the loss of expertise in distinguishing shades of red, the permitted colors according to the Tur and the Shulchan Aruch, and where brown stands.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

Dam Makkah — Attributing a Stain to a Non-Uterine Source

Blood from a wound does not render a woman temei'ah. Where the wound has to be, what to ask the doctor before an IUD insertion or a biopsy, and the dispute between the Shulchan Aruch and the Rema.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

Stains and Hargashah — The Three Approaches in Contemporary Halachah

Before applying the criteria of a stain, establish whether this is a halachic stain or halachic bleeding. The distinction, and the three contemporary approaches to hargashah.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

Stains, Continued — The Cases Where We Assume There Was a Hargashah

A bedikah cloth, immediately after relations, and immediately after urination: three cases in which halachah assumes a hargashah occurred even if the woman noticed nothing.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

A Stain After Urination — The Ashkenazi and Sephardi Dispute

The dispute between Rabbi Meir and Rabbi Yosei over blood found after urination, the four conditions of Rabbeinu Chananel, and why the question is largely moot today.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

Three Situations Where a Stain Receives No Leniencies

After urination, after an object has been inserted, and immediately after relations. What to do in practice so that an ordinary stain stays an ordinary stain.

Siman 190 — Ketamim (Stains)

Stains — A Complete Summary of the Siman

Siman 190 in one picture: the Torah basis, the six criteria of a stain that renders a woman temei'ah, the stain-versus-bleeding distinction, and the three cases where a hargashah is assumed.

Siman 195 — Harchakot (Separations)

Siman 195 — Harchakot (Separations)

Introduction to the Laws of Harchakot — Siman 195

Why the harchakot exist, the tension in Chazal between pat b'salo and the need for a further fence, and what kalut rosh actually asks of a couple.

Siman 195 — Harchakot (Separations)

Kalut Rosh, Passing Objects and Throwing — The Practical Harchakot

The three most basic harchakot: avoiding kalut rosh, not passing objects, and the Ashkenazi–Sephardi dispute over throwing. Plus carrying something heavy together and handing over a baby.

Siman 195 — Harchakot (Separations)

Harchakot — Passing Objects Between a Couple

Why passing objects is forbidden even when touching is unlikely, what to do in public, handing over a baby, carrying something heavy together, and the sources behind each ruling.

Siman 195 — Harchakot (Separations)

Harchakot — The Three Household Tasks

While a woman is nidda she keeps doing all her usual work, with three exceptions: making her husband's bed, pouring his wine, and washing him. Why these three, and how each works in practice.

Siman 195 — Harchakot (Separations)

Harchakot — Caring for a Spouse Who Is Ill

What happens when one spouse is ill and touch is forbidden? Why the Shulchan Aruch treats a sick husband differently from a sick wife, and what to arrange before a planned surgery.

Siman 195 — Harchakot (Separations)

Harchakot — Sending a Cup of Wine, and Kiddush

A husband may not send his wife a glass of wine, which raises a question at kiddush. Five permitted ways through it, and whether a couple should use the same one all month.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

Introduction to Siman 196 — Why Is a Hefsek Taharah Needed?

What a hefsek taharah accomplishes, whether the obligation is biblical or rabbinic, and why that question matters in practice.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

Hefsek Taharah — When to Do It, How to Do It, and With Which Cloth

The full practical walkthrough: the window before sunset, the morning backup, washing and waiting ten minutes, checking the color, and which cloths are acceptable.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

On Which Day May a Woman Perform a Hefsek Taharah?

Why study the development of the halachah rather than just the bottom line, the dispute in the Mishnah over the earliest day, and the Shulchan Aruch's ruling on a hefsek on the first day of bleeding.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

At What Hour of the Day Is a Hefsek Taharah Performed?

The ideal window is late afternoon, a morning backup hefsek is valid, and the hefsek must precede sunset. Why that deadline matters, from the practice of the Kutim.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

How Is a Hefsek Taharah Performed?

The preparations the Rokeach describes, why to wait a few minutes after washing, what the folds and crevices requirement means, how deep the bedikah goes, and today's practical ruling.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

Which Cloth Is Used for a Bedikah?

The two criteria from the Gemara, material and color, the three options the Shulchan Aruch accepts, what to do when no bedikah cloths are available, and why a tampon will not do.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

Moch Dachuk — What It Is and When It Is Used

The Gemara's rhetorical question that the Rashba turned into a practical solution, when a moch is obligatory, and why health comes before keeping it in place too long.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

White Garments During the Seven Clean Days

The custom from the Rokeach, how the Shulchan Aruch and the Rema read it differently, and what that means today for white underwear, colored underwear and white sheets.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

When Does the Count of the Seven Clean Days Begin?

The count begins the day after the hefsek taharah, never on the same day. A worked example, why the mistake invalidates immersion, and an easy way to remember.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

Why Wait Four or Five Days Before a Hefsek Taharah? Poletet Shichvat Zera

The source at Matan Torah, why this tum'ah interrupts the seven clean days, and the dispute between the Shulchan Aruch and the Rema behind the Sephardi four days and Ashkenazi five.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

The Seven Clean Days — Counting and Bedikot

Two bedikot a day lechatchilah, days 1 and 7 b'dieved, the Nishmat approach of three, and why awareness that you are counting matters as much as the bedikot.

Siman 196 — Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days

Hefsek Taharah and the Seven Clean Days — Summary, and the Colors of a Bedikah

The four steps of becoming tehorah, which colors on a bedikah cloth are acceptable, and why finding a rav who is baki b'mar'ot matters so much.

Siman 199 — Chafifah (Preparing for Immersion)

Siman 199 — Chafifah (Preparing for Immersion)

The Timing of Chafifah Before Immersion — When, Where and for How Long

Chafifah must be close to immersion. Afternoon or night, at home or at the mikveh, immersion after Shabbat, and roughly how long it should take.

The Festivals and Fast Days

The Festivals and Fast Days

The Laws of Taharah for Yom Kippur

A hefsek taharah on Yom Kippur is permitted, mikvaot are closed, and the harchakot apply even to a woman who is tehorah. Plus fertility treatment, pregnancy and nursing.